Hello y’all,

You know what………I broke the mold…….

Now some of you might be saying……..what is she talking about while some of you might know exactly what I mean……

And what I mean is,  dare to be different! I am truly blessed because I come from a fairly large family……now some of you may also have a lot of siblings, nieces, nephews, cousins, the list goes on and on or some of you may be from a small family………… And it doesn’t really matter……….

Because although your family is there to love and support you……

You must have faith in yourself. You must have purpose. You must have confidence. You must learn to develop your own brand. You must not ever be ashamed of your story.

Everyday is filled with challenges, always will be. There is no other person exactly like you. Think about all the people who have entered in your life, from work, from church, from friends, from marriage, from divorce, from births, from death, from the choices you make and sometimes the choices made for you.

Never underestimate the influence you have on the people you encounter, let me repeat that……Never underestimate the influence you have on the people you encounter. It is really so much easier to spread kindness and love then to be negative and mean.

Try it, go 24 hours without complaining…….(no cheating, not even one complaint)…..Now watch and see how life starts changing………

Now for you nay sayers…….(already thinking negative thoughts…..like….she really does see life through rose-colored glasses)…….I am not saying you should not speak the truth……..far from it. You must be yourself, you must be honest, you must have integrity.

But you know what, being honest and truthful does not mean being negative and mean.

If you are the boss…….everyone knows it, you don’t have to remind everyone everyday, instead be a leader, be authentic, be respectful.

If you are the employee…… everyone knows it, you don’t have to engage in negative conversations, (sometimes called whining) instead be passionate, be positive be honest.

If you’re in a bad relationship………change it….. Will it hurt….of course…..will it be worth it……absolutely.

If you’re in a job you hate………..change it……will it be easy…….no way……will it be worth it…….absolutely.

If you know you need to quit a bad habit like smoking or not working out (you get the picture)…….change it…….will it be easy…..probably not……will it be worth it……absolutely.

If you know you need to lose some weight…..change it……will it take a while…….it might, but don’t make it longer by quitting and starting all over again, will it be worth it…..absolutely.

So become a  Limited Edition and  Break the Mold. Spread love and kindness and warm the souls around you. Be all you can be!

Rile and I send you love and kindness and we’d love to hear from y’all, Woof Woof.